Tuesday, 20 May 2025
People - Food - Places
Sunday, 11 May 2025
Athi’s Alapparais
Incident no.:1
I think invariably each one of us would have atleast on distinct memory of something we did / something that happened to us in our childhood, which we wouldn’t have forgotten even till now. It might be of bravery, forgery, happiness or sadness or anything. I think this incident, that happened to Athi, would probably go down into his memory as one for his bravery and calm!
So, this is what happened. My amma and Athi were playing with the bedroom door lock. Well, you can never guess the kind of things that’d excite a 5-year-old. It can be very random. This was one such thing. Apparently, he had just found out that the room can be locked from the outside using a key and can still be opened easily through the knob on the inside. No points for guessing who was inside and who was outside. Of course, Athi was in, and amma was out. As the boy was trying to understand this wow of an invention, he gets carried away and pushes another lock in the room, which is strictly an inside-only lock - meaning, you can’t unlock/undo it from the outside. And poor fellow doesn’t know how to undo his actions, a.k.a open the door. My mom tries asking him to unlock a few times, but he shouts back that it’s really hard and he isn’t able to do it. Oh, I completely missed to tell you about this - he’d just got one of his hands completely covered with Marudhaani (the boy is surprisingly quite fond of it and whenever someone brings them home, he’s all the more happy to get his hands adorned with it). So, imagine a little kid trying to unlock (which he is clueless about) a door with just one hand with all his might - perfect recipe for panic! My amma comes rushing to me trying to explain what happened. All of us assemble right outside the door of the room talking to him, asking him to try a little harder to get the door unlocked. Thankfully for him, the room had a bathroom. So, we instruct him to wash the Henna off his hands and then try with both the hands. Still no luck. Outside we were losing our calm, but inside, the boy is still all put together. He doesn’t shed a drop of tear, patiently trying whatever that we ask him to do. By the end of 15 minutes, we surely knew this wasn’t helping. Luckily my father’s phone was inside the room, so we tried to video call him, but gosh, android settings couldn’t find a better time to request for camera permissions to attend the video call. Because he’s barely used mobiles, he isn’t able to figure out why he couldn’t attend the call, and thus goes our last chance of trying to get him out of the door without having to break it.
Just as we were thinking what can be done, my dad comes to the rescue with his absolute presence of mind - he decides to make a rectangular cut in the door near the lock by drilling holes. We instruct Athi to go and sit on the bed, while we try to unlock the door, and he promptly listens. Meanwhile, V contacts the maintenance folks and get someone from their team to fetch a ladder and try climbing to the window attached to that room. Thankfully, we live in second floor, so it wasn’t too much of a hassle. But Athi is too small to open the window to let him inside. As the maintenance anna tried to talk to him, asking him to stay calm, Athi replied back to him coolly, telling - “Uncle please wait, my thatha is drilling holes into the door and is going to open it for me”. Such calm and clarity, I sure don’t know where from he inherited them - definitely not me.
After about 25-30 minutes, Appa had managed to cut out a rectangular portion, and the door is unlocked. Oh boy, we were so relieved. As soon as we get in, we ask him how he was trying to open the door, and as he shows it, we realize the poor thing had been trying to push the lock further inside on the same side, inside of pulling it out to unlock. No wonder it was very hard. A little while later, we question him if he was afraid / cried while he was stuck inside, he replies bravely - "first light ah azhuga vara madiri irundhuchu ma, aana aprom ellarum enna suthiteengala la, aprom enaku bayam pochu" (initially tears did well up in his eyes, but then once we were all right outside the door trying to talk to him, he started feeling much better and didn't feel the need to weep).
Quite an adventure it was, especially for my mom - because she felt she was primarily responsible for the whole fiasco, and dad - because he had to the hard work of drilling out the holes on a super strong door. An experience that shall forever be etched in our memories and be talked about for ages to come.
| The hole in the door which was finally sealed yesterday with a patch of sheet |
Incident No.:2
This is nothing unlike the previous one. This is more on how kids stump you speechless through their actions. We decided to enroll Athi for a Parkour Summer Class. It was the first day of the class and there's this huge slide in there made of wood, quite unlike the normal slides in the parks - this one is super steep at the top. Definitely looked a bit scary to me, at first sight. After a couple of other activities, the boy climbed to the top of this slide (through the ladder sort of thing), and the instructor asked him to slide down. He seemed pretty nervous and scared, and said he didn't want to do it. The instructor tried talking to him slowly, offering to help / hold him as he got down, and I did try to talk to him too, but he was quite unprepared and didn't want to do it. After about 5-7 minutes of trying to talk to him / making him slide, he was just lifted off and put through in the middle of the slide. He didn't protest much but didn't want to do it again, and continued with the rest of the activities for the day. As the day progresses, whenever he had a break, he'd climb up the slide from the bottom (instead of taking the ladder at the top and sliding all the way down) and reach a certain height and slide down from there. He kept doing it again and again, for God knows how many times - trying to get a hang of how the slide felt when he slid. As the class comes to an end for the day, guess what he asks - he walks up to the instructor and tells him he'd want to climb all the way to the top the slide, and get down on his own. I was quite stumped. Just about an hour ago, we were in the same place, pleading with him to slide down and here he was now, wanting to do on his own. Well, quite a transformation in an hour's time. The biggest take away for me in this whole episode was - you can try to push your kids to try the things that they might be scared off at first, but you really do have to give them the time and space to explore it on their own, without too much interference. Keep providing them that opportunity to explore things at their own pace, and don't forget to enjoy the beauty of how they figure out a way around it/through it.
| The wooden slide |
Monday, 5 May 2025
🚂magaluru (Chikmagaluru)
I have always gone on trips with friends from school / articleship / Ctc, but never with people from work. It started quite on a whim between me and a couple of colleagues, and before we knew it we had a group of 14 people readily agree to join. And thus went the first office trip, to Varkala in 2023. Like every other gang, after a couple of months since that trip we’ve been going around in circles trying to plan something similar once again - in an attempt to make it a yearly ritual. But as it always happens, the trip kept eluding us - time, budget, choice of places - each one of us wanted to do a different destination. The conversations kept happening now and then, but nothing materialised for 1.5 years.
Finally, by the end of February 2025, about 6 of us sat together and finalised the dates and destination for the trip - the Good Friday long weekend - Chikmagaluru. As we opened up the option to rest of folks at work, we arrived at a total of 9 confirmed interests (8 of us from Chennai, and one guy from Bangalore). Accommodations and travel tickets were booked. We were to take a bus from Chennai to Bangalore and then hire a van from Bangalore to Chikmagalur.
So, Thursday night, 17 April, we take the overnight bus from Koyambedu to Bangalore. The excitement that we are actually doing the trip kept a few of us wide awake for a couple of hours, in which we ended up playing a couple of rounds of Uno and some random Youtube music quizzes. We managed to get about 3-4 hours of sleep, as the bus dropped us off at Majestic at around 5:45AM. Our van was scheduled to arrive at 7:00AM, so we had almost an hour to kill, and decided to find a place to refresh, but couldn’t find a proper place and ended up sitting outside the Metro. As we waited for the van arrive, we explored various reel options for the trip, and finalised on the cross clap transition thing (the final output was definitely worth the effort - the insta savvy trip youngsters definitely did an amazing job at editing)
Sharp at 7 AM, the van arrives, and along with it the last man of our trip, the guy from Bangalore arrives as well. It’s an AC van, having a SmartTV and all - orey luxury only. As we start to move along, the van inches forward really slowly, and guess what could be the reason - the infamous Bangalore traffic, as always. Gosh, even at 7AM on a Friday morning, the roads are jam-packed with vehicles. We stop at this beautiful and serene looking place called “Krishna Kesava” for breakfast. The place was vast and crowded, but we did manage to secure a table quickly and place our orders. To mark that we were in Karnataka, we did go about ordering Benne Dosas and Thattu Idlis. The food was mostly served quickly and turned out to be delicious. The only problem we faced was, the waiter annas never served drinking water - you stop them ‘n’ number of times and ask for normal drinking water, it never came. Sort of forced to use the bottled ones - not really a great thing! And we off continued to trod on.
| Krishna Kesava’s entrance |
Thankfully, the traffic thinned out a bit, but it continued to peek out at the toll gates. Doesn’t every office trip always have this one guy who’d act as the Music DJ? Well, we definitely had one, and our DJ fellow was so true to his DJing that he’d never play a song for more than one and a half minutes. Any song you request would invariably be played, but before even the charanam starts, the boy skips to the next song. After a while of trying to stop him from skipping songs, we decided we were better off not playing any music and resorted to Mafia and Dumb Charades. Mafia was quite entertaining, sort of brought back memories from our previous trip (to Varkala) when we first played this game. Dumb Charades never loses its charm ever, right? Googling to come out with the most weirdest movie name ever (e.g. Kekraan Mekraan, Athipatti Muthupandi) it was super fun to see everyone try to act out the words and make their team find out the names.
Phew, thus flew another 4-5hours, and we were close to Chikmagalur. As we settled down to have our lunch, we started to discuss on where we could go that day. Honestly, our itinerary was quite blank. We just had a handful of places to go, and never really planned out much. So, we decide we could go to some view point for the sunset and then go back to our hostel at night. But our driver anna - I’m not really sure if he was helping us out, or was just trying to minimise his time at the wheels, definitely had other plans. He outright denied to take us to a view point for sunset, saying we didn’t have a lot of time, and the places would close their entry by 4:30-5PM, and we had no chance of reaching there by that time. But, he offered to take us to a lake, Hirekolale Lake, which was enroute to our place. Apparently, the weather outside didn’t look really promising - it was rather a bit too sunny. All of us were a bit dejected and worried about what’s the point in going to a lake in Motta Veyyil? We grudgingly agreed to his offer - but in a surprising turn of events, 5 minutes into the drive to the lake, the weather completely changed. It became much cooler and breezy. As we reached the lake, there were mild drizzles. The lake in itself was stunning - pristine waters, surrounded by peaks on either sides, a neat sidewalk - we were floored, atleast, I was. We spent a while there walking around, trying to see who could throw a stone into the water farthest, taking pictures, and not to forget, take that 3 second clip for our transition video (Yes, in continuation of the one we took at the Metro). It felt a little too awkward to request people to take that video for us, but the promise of the final output made us go for it.
| Hirekolale Lake |
From the lake, we drove over to our stay, the Hosteller. Well, nestled amidst coffee plantations, this place was definitely a gem of a find - a nice outdoor common area, dorms with cool balconies, an open play zone. We freshened up a bit, and headed to the town for dinner. Dinner was at Town Canteen, another round of Benne Dosas - we were starting to get a bit tired of it. Came back to the hostel, and spent a while playing Uno, Geistes and chatting about and retired for the night. The night was cool with occasional rains.
| Hosteller |
The next day, we started off at about 7:30AM to go to Z point trail walk and Hebbe Falls. We reached the entry point to Hebbe around 8:30AM after having a breakfast of idlis and pooris enroute. Z point was a little further from here and we were confused for a while trying to decide which one to do first. Ultimately, it was decided that we’d do Z point and then go to Hebbe. Z point trail walk had an entry fee of Rs.118 per person (well, that’s 100 + 18% GST - ingeyuma GST moment). It’s a 3km walk one way with almost 75% flat terrain and about 25% incline. The first half of the walk was inside the forest cover and felt cool. We did encounter a small waterfall even. After this, we were almost at the top of the mountain, and directly out into the sun. And the sun wasn’t kind that day, it did get a little too hot as we ventured forward. After about 20 minutes of walk, we reached the peak. I definitely missed the monsoon greens. The grasses and the forest beneath were quite dark and dry, owing to the winter and the summer that followed it. This place takes its name as Z point trail owing to the trail resembling the shape of the english alphabet Z. The walk down was fairly easy, but quite draining because of the noon sun.
By about 11:30AM, we were back at the entrance of Hebbe Falls. To reach the Hebbe Falls, you had to take a 40-minute jeep ride and then walk down for another 15-20 minutes. The ride costs about Rs.590 per person, and each jeep had a capacity of 13 people. Unless you’ve 13 people, or you agree to pay Rs.7,080 to have a full jeep for yourself, the jeep wouldn’t start. Luckily for us, we were a group of 9 ourselves, so we quickly got another 4 people to join us. This jeep ride was just like every other jeep ride ever, jostling you in all directions, but much better than the one we had to take in Kudremukh. After a while, we reach a spot from where we are to walk down to the falls. There’s this mild drizzle in the air as you get near the falls - that feeling of water spraying in your face is something I’ll always love and never get tired of. The falls is magnificent. It pours down onto a big rock, so you are barred to go really to close it. But as it flows there are multiple little pools that you can get into and enjoy the water flow. We spend a good one hour there and are back at our jeep, for the return ride. It was almost 3:00ish by the time we are back at the entry point. We grab a late lunch enroute back to the hostel.
We decide to explore the town of Chikmagalur in the evening and walk around the market road, buying some coffee and eating some chaat. The dinner that night was quite an experience - we waited for almost an hour at a hotel only to know that they haven’t even started preparing our orders. Eventually, we were forced to walk out and eat off a quick dinner at Domino’s and reach the hostel at 11! We’d wanted to start off early next day to go Bandekallu Gudda, but the chances of us making it there the next day seemed very unlikely after this whole dinner fiasco. So, we call it off and decide to have a slow morning.
A slow morning, we did have the next day, strolling about the roads around the hostel. These lavendar blooms that lay strewn on the road right outside the hostel were so beautiful. Of course, some photos were taken. I even posted myself a photograph of that from the Chikmagalur Post Office.
We bid goodbye to the hosts at the hostel and start our journey back to Bangalore, stopping enroute at the Belur Chennakesava Temple. Though a little blinding and hot, the temple’s carvings and architecture never failed to charm us. Having visited this place earlier, I tried to flaunt around the little knowledge that I’d gained previously. We wind up from the place in less than an hour and continue to trod on towards Bengaluru. During our pitstop for lunch, we were surprised with a kutti spell of rain showers which felt quite refreshing after the day’s heat. As always, as we near Bangalore; we could feel the traffic building on, and the van inching through the maze of vehicles.
| Even the ceilings had intricate carvings |
Dinner was had at Bangalore Cafe, a fancy vegetarian (alas!) restaurant. Their menu had some really cool pictures of various food items and we were tempted. The mushroom noodles were really yummy. But the star of the day was the dessert - Tres Leches, and the Rishta Pucca (which was gulab jamun with vanilla icecream with a very generous drizzle of nuts on top). With this dinner, the trip officially came to an end, as we walk along to the bus stand and board our bus home!
| The amazemax Tres Leches |
It’s definitely a trip to cherish - the people and places, with lovely memories, for which I shall forever be grateful.
How much does Happiness weigh?
- 1 medium French Fries (Because its always food first :D)
- An evening spent in Beach.
- An hour long phone call with a dear friend after ages.
- An all-nighter at home with my Girls Gumbal (Remember the night before R's Wedding)
- Solving (read, trying to solve) the Crossword Puzzle in Vaaramalar (its a weekly supplement of a Tamil Daily)
- First sprouts of the seeds sown
- Late night movie watching at home, during weekends
- Meeting up someone I know all of a sudden in a random place. Gosh! Every time I met someone like this, I would be beaming the whole day for no reason.
- A run along the 200ft road stretch!
- One night's peaceful sleep
- Sunrise!
- Crescent & Full moon
- Petrichor - the smell of soil from the first rain
- Balloon shooting at Bessy
- Staring at the horizon from the peak of a mountain / hill after a trek / run.
- Bread Omlette from Metro Juice Park
- A good run with the CTC folks.
- The smile of Athiboy
- Vacation trips with a girlfriend
- Harvesting home grown food.
- Late-night conversations with the brother man. (Remember the nights we'd spent talking about random things when Bul didn't let us sleep)
- Reading while eating
- Gulab Jamun mix
- Daily calls with Appa
- Sleeping baby
- Communicating with Paati through actions and expressions, as she has trouble hearing clearly.
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